For most people, there are very typical things that they find attractive or sexy in a partner. In a woman it could be having long flowing hair, beautiful curves and full lips. And it’s typical for sexy men to be described as “tall, dark and handsome”. But what about the other things that you find sexy about someone? It can be relate to their looks but sometimes, when you are in a relationship, it’s in the little idiosyncrasies of the way they go about their daily life. Like the way that someone makes their coffee or reads the newspaper. I think when you have been together for a long time, like Max and I have been, that is what starts to make your lover even more attractive.
I used this photo as an example because it made me laugh that Max says he finds me sexy when I am doing the laundry. Personally I don’t think there’s anything sexy about it (maybe he is picturing me naked and covered in slippery blue laundry detergent!) but for some reason, when I start doing this regular household chore, Max gets very turned on. I feel the same way too when I see Max is hard at work on his computer. He gets a look on his face and I know that he is concentrating and his mind is deep inside his work. It’s sexy to me to know that his mind is a million miles away and that he can be so entranced by what he is doing. I don’t think most people would find these things traditionally sexy but I think they are part of what keeps a relationship fun and exciting. So what about you? Are there any run of the mill things that your partner does that turns you on?