What is the key to good sex? There are always certain skills that can come in handy. There are guides for both men and women on how to give your partner the most amount of pleasure with little tips and tricks that work on most people. But when it comes down to it, everyone is different. And that’s why we believe that the most important factor for having good sex is communication!
Communication comes in a lot of different forms. Part of it comes just from paying attention to your partner’s body. If she is moaning and her breathing is getting heavy, chances are that whatever you are doing is working. If she is just laying there and seems bored however, then you should try something else. Noticing those little cues can make a big difference but the most important factor is still talking openly. If you can’t tell your partner what you want, they will never know how to totally please you.
That’s why our interest was piqued when we saw this list of 36 secrets women want you to know about sex. Some of them are very specific to the people who are on the list. For instance, one woman says she wants to try BDSM but isn’t sure how to bring it up with her partner. Other women want their partner to be more spontaneous. But if you don’t tell your lover what you want, he’ll never know. So if you want to improve your sex life, start talking!