Everyone knows that relationships are at their best when you have an active sex life. It’s a way to connect physically and emotionally. Having sex with your lover is something that is so beautiful and intimate and it makes you feel close to one another. Not to mention that it gets that oxytocin flowing and really makes you feel happy after! But even the best of us can sometimes get distracted with our day to day obligations. Whether it’s work, kids, household chores or whatever else is eating up your time, sometimes you reach the end of the day and all you want to do is veg out.
In our home, we don’t need much inspiration to have sex. But every now and then, we might hear a song and suddenly it is like the engine is revved and we can’t keep our hands off each other! This happens to just about everyone. There are always going to be those songs that you hear and suddenly make you feel turned on. They are the best songs to make love to and they can really add the perfect ambiance to time with your lover.
We’ve been talking a lot of about sexy selfies and sharing pics with your lover this week. I think most of us have at some point or another received a sexy crotch shot from a boyfriend or girlfriend. Sometimes they can be very titillating and a total turn-on. But other times, we just don’t have the reaction that someone would expect. Instead they can be funny or weird or sometimes, hard to figure out what exactly you are looking at. That’s why me and Max were so amused when we saw this video of a woman looking at 89 dick pics. It’s been going viral and it’s very funny to watch her react to all of the different photos. There’s also a follow up video!
We have to admit that it has been a while since our usual update. We feel bad when we don’t keep up with our regular schedule but sometimes a lot of life gets in the way. The good news is that we have started shooting again this week and will have new updates for you soon! But our time away had us thinking about what it’s like when you are in a relationship and spend some time apart from your lover. Sometimes it might just be a trip that one of you takes for a few weeks or maybe you are separated temporarily and can only have a long distance relationship. But when you see your lover again it is like fireworks going off! Nothing makes your heart grow (and your body feel more horny) than having to spend time away from your boyfriend or girlfriend.
If you live under a rock you might not have heard that a bunch of nude selfies of celebrities were hacked and released onto the internet this weekend. Personally, I think that isn’t fair to these celebrities. Like most people, these women took these photos in private and meant for them to only be seen by their boyfriends or husbands. It is super creepy that anyone would feel the need to expose the private photos of these women. For some of these hackers, the enjoyment they get isn’t about seeing the naked celebrity, it’s more about the potential to humiliate them.
That’s why we think it’s important to support the porn industry and women who want to share images of their body with everyone! We have made a conscious decision to put our sex life on the internet. You can say a lot of things about it but the one thing that is for sure is that we are not exploiting anyone. In fact, it is the complete opposite.
What kind of acts do you count as “real” sex? A recent article on Jezebel brings up an interesting difference in the attitudes between Americans and the French when it comes to sex. As we all know, in North America oral sex is usually treated as something sexual but it is more like a stop that is on the way to full intercourse. But in France, oral sex is treated just like intercourse. In fact, in a lot of cases it is seen as being a lot more intimate and special than regular intercourse.
It seems like the world can’t stop talking about the new video Anaconda by Nicki Minaj. And we’re not surprised! This song and video are getting a lot of attention for all the right reasons. For one thing, this song is like a new version of Baby Got Back by Sir Mix-a-lot. Only instead of a man talking about women’s butts, this new song has Nicki talking about some of her best hookups and showing off her own beautiful big butt.
The beat brings back memories of the original song and takes us back to a time of high school dances and our first boy-girl parties. If this song doesn’t make you want to get down on the dance floor immediately there might be something wrong with you. Or maybe it’s just our love of dancing and good beats coming through!
What is the key to good sex? There are always certain skills that can come in handy. There are guides for both men and women on how to give your partner the most amount of pleasure with little tips and tricks that work on most people. But when it comes down to it, everyone is different. And that’s why we believe that the most important factor for having good sex is communication!
Communication comes in a lot of different forms. Part of it comes just from paying attention to your partner’s body. If she is moaning and her breathing is getting heavy, chances are that whatever you are doing is working. If she is just laying there and seems bored however, then you should try something else. Noticing those little cues can make a big difference but the most important factor is still talking openly. If you can’t tell your partner what you want, they will never know how to totally please you.
Add this one to the list of interesting sexual facts: a new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine says that lesbians are more likely to have orgasms during sex than women who are bisexual or heterosexual. The study was open to men and women of all sexual orientations and information was collected from 6,151 people between the ages of 21 and 65. The study then had a subgroup of people who identify as single. They asked the participants to identify their gender, orientation and percentage of time they orgasm with a familiar partner on a scale of 0 to 100. Here’s what they found out.
Unsurprisingly, when they analyzed the mens results the amount of orgasms did not vary widely depending on the man’s sexual orientation. Gay, straight and bisexual all generally have an orgasm rate between 77 and 85% when they have sex. However, for women the numbers had a huge difference based on their sexual orientation!
For most people, there are very typical things that they find attractive or sexy in a partner. In a woman it could be having long flowing hair, beautiful curves and full lips. And it’s typical for sexy men to be described as “tall, dark and handsome”. But what about the other things that you find sexy about someone? It can be relate to their looks but sometimes, when you are in a relationship, it’s in the little idiosyncrasies of the way they go about their daily life. Like the way that someone makes their coffee or reads the newspaper. I think when you have been together for a long time, like Max and I have been, that is what starts to make your lover even more attractive.